“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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How to do the crossover?

tomyv

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Alright guys, DJ in need of advice!

Went out with this girl once about a month ago. We end up sleeping together, I figure no big deal. She keeps calling, I haven't really nexted her, instead I'm keeping her around for a fbuddy. I don't make any attempt to see her since.

Anyway, Sat. night, I'm chatting up this cutie, she's there to meet her friend. Her friend turns out to be girl #1. Everything is cool at this point, but #1 acts as if we're really dating or something way more than it is.

PROBLEM= I'm really digging girl #2, never got the chance to # close, so to see her again I have to go through girl #1. Is there any way to pull this off??????
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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lol

In a word? No.

Surprise me, please, this could be interesting.
 

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I don't see any way to just get the number, but one idea, call her and invite her to something (bbq, movie, house party, what ever) and ask for #2's number because you want to invite her as well. I don't see any other way to get the number without everything getting fvcked up.
 

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no chance. Girl #1 probably tells Girl #2 that you're "with her" etc etc.
 

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Dude at least show a little regard to girl 1 here.
 

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if you can pull that off, you are da man!

If girl #2 doesn't know about you and girl #1. Rest assured that girl #1 will tell her, if she thinks for a tiny second that you are attracted to girl #2.

If girl #2 already knew by the time you 2 were talking, there could be potential.
 

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hmmm

Yup, girl #2 already knew, and even mentioned us "hanging out" sometime.

Here's what I'm thinking. If I can LJBF girl #1, and actually be just friends, there's a chance. It probably won't work, but it'll be fun trying!
 

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it's a long shot, but good luck, and let us know how you decide to handle it. if you can do this we will all be smiling really big:D
 

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Friday Night

Alright, I'll keep you guys updated as to how bad i crash and burn with this one.

Girl #1 called me and wanted to get together friday, so I told her to bring girl #2 and meet up with me and some friends at a local bar.

This should be interesting.

I'll let ya know how this goes on Monday.
 
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