“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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How to do the crossover?

tomyv

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Alright guys, DJ in need of advice!

Went out with this girl once about a month ago. We end up sleeping together, I figure no big deal. She keeps calling, I haven't really nexted her, instead I'm keeping her around for a fbuddy. I don't make any attempt to see her since.

Anyway, Sat. night, I'm chatting up this cutie, she's there to meet her friend. Her friend turns out to be girl #1. Everything is cool at this point, but #1 acts as if we're really dating or something way more than it is.

PROBLEM= I'm really digging girl #2, never got the chance to # close, so to see her again I have to go through girl #1. Is there any way to pull this off??????
 

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lol

In a word? No.

Surprise me, please, this could be interesting.
 

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I don't see any way to just get the number, but one idea, call her and invite her to something (bbq, movie, house party, what ever) and ask for #2's number because you want to invite her as well. I don't see any other way to get the number without everything getting fvcked up.
 

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no chance. Girl #1 probably tells Girl #2 that you're "with her" etc etc.
 

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Dude at least show a little regard to girl 1 here.
 

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if you can pull that off, you are da man!

If girl #2 doesn't know about you and girl #1. Rest assured that girl #1 will tell her, if she thinks for a tiny second that you are attracted to girl #2.

If girl #2 already knew by the time you 2 were talking, there could be potential.
 

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hmmm

Yup, girl #2 already knew, and even mentioned us "hanging out" sometime.

Here's what I'm thinking. If I can LJBF girl #1, and actually be just friends, there's a chance. It probably won't work, but it'll be fun trying!
 

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it's a long shot, but good luck, and let us know how you decide to handle it. if you can do this we will all be smiling really big:D
 

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Friday Night

Alright, I'll keep you guys updated as to how bad i crash and burn with this one.

Girl #1 called me and wanted to get together friday, so I told her to bring girl #2 and meet up with me and some friends at a local bar.

This should be interesting.

I'll let ya know how this goes on Monday.
 
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