"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Shivastorm_88

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I know its extremely lame, but there's this girl (A) who is friends with a girl I used to work with (B) that's on my facebook

Now I never talk or talked with B, even if she is now on my facebook, so I can't use that to my advantage, but **** I find A so ****ing attractive I really want to start talking to her and ask her out somewhere fun, but I never did an approach (if you can call it that) via facebook. Any tips?
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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DonJoseCantosie

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I wish i could give advice, but my online game isn't that good. But u could give it a shot on being honest how u saw her on "B"'s profile and u just had to meet her. Then again, direct style for online might not work that well because the true power of direct is face to face rather than online where she can't see jack sh1t of ur presence. But then again, there have been some girls who responded back when i said it who were cute, so who knows :)
 
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