"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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How to do a facebook approach?

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Shivastorm_88

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I know its extremely lame, but there's this girl (A) who is friends with a girl I used to work with (B) that's on my facebook

Now I never talk or talked with B, even if she is now on my facebook, so I can't use that to my advantage, but **** I find A so ****ing attractive I really want to start talking to her and ask her out somewhere fun, but I never did an approach (if you can call it that) via facebook. Any tips?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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DonJoseCantosie

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I wish i could give advice, but my online game isn't that good. But u could give it a shot on being honest how u saw her on "B"'s profile and u just had to meet her. Then again, direct style for online might not work that well because the true power of direct is face to face rather than online where she can't see jack sh1t of ur presence. But then again, there have been some girls who responded back when i said it who were cute, so who knows :)
 
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