"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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How to DJ in working environment??

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cute co-worker today @ work

She seems like someone in her early 20's, unpaid intern.

Anyway she sits in front of a computer all day, such as me, but she sits in front of me, her back facing me of course.

quiet the whole day.
then at the end she wasnt sure how to use the phone so i told her. then she asked me she should tell the boss she's leaving since today's herfirst day and i suggested she should.

Damn this isnt normal for me. i answered her questions. now if i didnt answer her questions straight out, i'd seem like a **** or jerk if i just played mind games w/her. it probably wouldnt be appropriate in a working environment anyway...since my damn boss is nosey and there are cameras in the office.
she doesnt seem like she has an interest in me aand might have a bf.

so how the f*ck does one spark IL in a co-worker.
normally if it was some girl outside of work, i'd crack a few witty remarks or tease her and flirt.

but since this is my first real job in an office im not sure what the f*ck to do in this situation??
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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You just have to know when to flirt and how far to take it. Stay professional but when you get the opportunity (on break or when its really slow and/or the boss is out) then try some light flirting.
 
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Don't worry about making an impression straight away. Hitting on a poor unpaid intern on her first big scary day will only make things tougher on her. Play the buddy for a bit, and then when things warm up invite her out. BUT STAY PROFESSIONAL. I'm a big advocate of not fooling around in the office, **** gets complicated when things eventually go south. Just don't be stupid and start all out hitting on her in the middle of work, think long and hard on whether or not this is worth it before you do something.

-Grey Fox
 
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ok good wake up call guys.

things really didnt look tough on her at all...she was pretty bored actually. chatting on aim most of the time...since the boss expects her to do research.

ok ill take things slow...

u said play the buddy thing. that's exactly where i dont wanna end up in the LJBF zone. oh well since she's about a 7 its not that big of a deal. she does have a nice ass and boobs too
 
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