"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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How to DJ in working environment??

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cute co-worker today @ work

She seems like someone in her early 20's, unpaid intern.

Anyway she sits in front of a computer all day, such as me, but she sits in front of me, her back facing me of course.

quiet the whole day.
then at the end she wasnt sure how to use the phone so i told her. then she asked me she should tell the boss she's leaving since today's herfirst day and i suggested she should.

Damn this isnt normal for me. i answered her questions. now if i didnt answer her questions straight out, i'd seem like a **** or jerk if i just played mind games w/her. it probably wouldnt be appropriate in a working environment anyway...since my damn boss is nosey and there are cameras in the office.
she doesnt seem like she has an interest in me aand might have a bf.

so how the f*ck does one spark IL in a co-worker.
normally if it was some girl outside of work, i'd crack a few witty remarks or tease her and flirt.

but since this is my first real job in an office im not sure what the f*ck to do in this situation??
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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You just have to know when to flirt and how far to take it. Stay professional but when you get the opportunity (on break or when its really slow and/or the boss is out) then try some light flirting.
 
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Don't worry about making an impression straight away. Hitting on a poor unpaid intern on her first big scary day will only make things tougher on her. Play the buddy for a bit, and then when things warm up invite her out. BUT STAY PROFESSIONAL. I'm a big advocate of not fooling around in the office, **** gets complicated when things eventually go south. Just don't be stupid and start all out hitting on her in the middle of work, think long and hard on whether or not this is worth it before you do something.

-Grey Fox
 
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ok good wake up call guys.

things really didnt look tough on her at all...she was pretty bored actually. chatting on aim most of the time...since the boss expects her to do research.

ok ill take things slow...

u said play the buddy thing. that's exactly where i dont wanna end up in the LJBF zone. oh well since she's about a 7 its not that big of a deal. she does have a nice ass and boobs too
 
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