"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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How to disco dance

Matt Rogers

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Hi. I had a date recently with a really hot girl which went very well. I got her laughing, asking questions about me, and she even indirectly set up a date with me, mentioning a hall of residence disco and asking if I was going to be there. I said I was, and she said she looked forwards to seeing me there.

I figure this would be an ideal time to get some quality kino in and maybe even get a first kiss in, but I am hopeless at dancing. I can sort of sway a bit and move my feet when dancing with friends, but am useless at dancing with partners.

Any advice on how I can bluff my way through the evening? I am OK with slow music as I can just put my hands on her shoulders or waist, draw her towards me and sway a bit, but not so good on the faster stuff.

I also want to learn to do that thing where you get the girl to lean back while you have her in a dancing hold so you can kiss her. I have seen this done in the movies and it is really romantic.

Cheers
Matt
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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get dance lessons and for a qucik fix method try and find a freind that can give you some tips, show you the basics, or you can buy a DVD or video showing how to dance and try and copy it, just dont expect to be great in 1 week.
 

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Watch Saturday Night Fever starring John Travolta!
 

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^^^ Haha, Once in a night club I saw an asian dude on one of those elevated stages who was doing Travolta moves. I began copying him and got some weird looks from girls :D
 

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Just try to vary your moves based on the music, move your hips and shoulders, and make sure you move around a little as well as swaying.

Also if you see some guy getting a lot of attention from chicks on the dancefloor, simply mirror his movements, he won't notice and you'll be relaxed knowing you're not making a complete fool of yourself.

As for dancing with a chick, yeah that's harder, just try to go with the flow and don't whatever you do tread on her toes!.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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