“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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How to diffuse a grumpy ****block?

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So I was at the club in a 3 set. First girl was nice I was chatting her up a little then she left the group or something I forget. Second girl was really receptive smiling laughing . The third girl was just standing there ignoring me frowning. I wasnt really trying to pick any of these girls up I was mostly looking to work on my talking game/ get some social proof in the club. Anyways so I turn to the grumpy one and say somehthing like

"Hey you should smile more" with a ****y grin on my face.

Of course I have said this to many girls when they are looking b****y just to mess with them, and it almost always results in the girl being more of a b****.

Anyways lo and behold the grumpy girl gives me a scowl, leans over and whispers in the second girls ear. I quickly get a "we have to go". As they leave I laugh and say "too bad". Then I grabbed the second girl and say "i like you" or something jokingly. She gives me a wink a smile and walks away.

So I definitely had the second girl interested. What's the best way to deal with a grumpy friend? When I'm actually trying to pick the girls up I need to have a better plan.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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getready said:
Anyways so I turn to the grumpy one and say somehthing like

"Hey you should smile more" with a ****y grin on my face.

Of course I have said this to many girls when they are looking b****y just to mess with them, and it almost always results in the girl being more of a b****.
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Of course....you told her what to do. If you want to bust her out of (or at least throw her off balance) the "i'm a biatch in a biatchy mood" frame you'll have to take other approaches.

Say an opposite like (with a completely serious happy tone and facial expression) "i see you're the fun one here, awesome".

You're staying in charge because you're not feeding her frame OR giving her an order. She'll either leave you alone or loosen up and explain why she's not in a good mood. Maybe she's NOT a biatch and it's just that her cat just died or something similar.

Showing that you're not going to get sucked into her reality or attack her socially goes a long way towards pulling the claws out of a possible biatch.
 
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Thanks for the imput I'll try both of these approaches and see which works best!
 
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