"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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How to deal with to many opportunity to approach?

Canadien

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Ok guys here are few places I'm approaching, or using tactics to open up new possibilities..

1) Cafeteria--> they serve free vegetable food everyday, so I get to have instant free date with a new girl everyday

2) I'm taking four dance lessons, from two different university, thats four chances each week to hookup with so many girls..

3) I use laptop and plant myself on very busy place in university, I get to meet so many new people everyday, its getting ridiculous now..

4) Going to bus is also an adventure as I can approach, and already have set of girls waiting for me that I know of..

5) I joined almost all workshops dealing with career, social, and academic aspects of things from university, here again I will get ton of opportunities..

6) I am a member of a Indian cultural group, hence again new sets of possibilities will open up with parties and other cultural events planned in the year..

7) I am the leader and show enthusiasm for almost anything I do, and that attracts more people willing to follow, somehow I am building an army of AFC trying to get through all this, and I pride myself in helping fellow man trying to improve himself....

So, what should my focus be? If I get to talk to so many girls on daily basis..

To let you guys know I started in this forum and this new lifestyle just 10 months agio, before that I couldn't even make an eye contact, how fast should I move?
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Guitar_Whizz

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You need a default conversation opener for each of the scenarios you listed. Get a pen and paper right now and write down a situational opener for each of those situations that could be used to start a conversation.

Once you have come up with openers for each situation you just need to memorise those openers, so next time you're in each situation you will not be stuck for what to say to get a conversation started.
 

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Obviously you can't nail all the ladies. Make some of them your friends, that way you get even more ladies through them. Best thing for friends are hot ladies, they'd have a lot of friends.
 
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