"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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How to deal with to many opportunity to approach?

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Ok guys here are few places I'm approaching, or using tactics to open up new possibilities..

1) Cafeteria--> they serve free vegetable food everyday, so I get to have instant free date with a new girl everyday

2) I'm taking four dance lessons, from two different university, thats four chances each week to hookup with so many girls..

3) I use laptop and plant myself on very busy place in university, I get to meet so many new people everyday, its getting ridiculous now..

4) Going to bus is also an adventure as I can approach, and already have set of girls waiting for me that I know of..

5) I joined almost all workshops dealing with career, social, and academic aspects of things from university, here again I will get ton of opportunities..

6) I am a member of a Indian cultural group, hence again new sets of possibilities will open up with parties and other cultural events planned in the year..

7) I am the leader and show enthusiasm for almost anything I do, and that attracts more people willing to follow, somehow I am building an army of AFC trying to get through all this, and I pride myself in helping fellow man trying to improve himself....

So, what should my focus be? If I get to talk to so many girls on daily basis..

To let you guys know I started in this forum and this new lifestyle just 10 months agio, before that I couldn't even make an eye contact, how fast should I move?
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Guitar_Whizz

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You need a default conversation opener for each of the scenarios you listed. Get a pen and paper right now and write down a situational opener for each of those situations that could be used to start a conversation.

Once you have come up with openers for each situation you just need to memorise those openers, so next time you're in each situation you will not be stuck for what to say to get a conversation started.
 

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Obviously you can't nail all the ladies. Make some of them your friends, that way you get even more ladies through them. Best thing for friends are hot ladies, they'd have a lot of friends.
 
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