"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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How to deal with to many opportunity to approach?

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Ok guys here are few places I'm approaching, or using tactics to open up new possibilities..

1) Cafeteria--> they serve free vegetable food everyday, so I get to have instant free date with a new girl everyday

2) I'm taking four dance lessons, from two different university, thats four chances each week to hookup with so many girls..

3) I use laptop and plant myself on very busy place in university, I get to meet so many new people everyday, its getting ridiculous now..

4) Going to bus is also an adventure as I can approach, and already have set of girls waiting for me that I know of..

5) I joined almost all workshops dealing with career, social, and academic aspects of things from university, here again I will get ton of opportunities..

6) I am a member of a Indian cultural group, hence again new sets of possibilities will open up with parties and other cultural events planned in the year..

7) I am the leader and show enthusiasm for almost anything I do, and that attracts more people willing to follow, somehow I am building an army of AFC trying to get through all this, and I pride myself in helping fellow man trying to improve himself....

So, what should my focus be? If I get to talk to so many girls on daily basis..

To let you guys know I started in this forum and this new lifestyle just 10 months agio, before that I couldn't even make an eye contact, how fast should I move?
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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You need a default conversation opener for each of the scenarios you listed. Get a pen and paper right now and write down a situational opener for each of those situations that could be used to start a conversation.

Once you have come up with openers for each situation you just need to memorise those openers, so next time you're in each situation you will not be stuck for what to say to get a conversation started.
 
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Obviously you can't nail all the ladies. Make some of them your friends, that way you get even more ladies through them. Best thing for friends are hot ladies, they'd have a lot of friends.
 
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