"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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How to deal with this?

Kommon

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Damnit, I hate people like this. This guy I sit next to in my 3rd period class pretty much just screwed me over. He was talking to me and was like "Mannn i bet u dont get no ass blah blah blah". I didn't mind him randomly saying crap like that because he doesn't even know me....so I was like whatever. but he went a little too far. After that he whispered to this chick that I was interested....WTF? I don't get this. I'm not even interested in her at all. I really have no idea how to respond to something like this. It was complete bull****, and I don't want to sit next to this guy while he keeps talking like this.
Any ideas on what I should do guys?
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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brenbaus

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first off, if your not interested in this chick, then what are you worried about, she probably thinks you are a wuss anyway because the other guy told her you were interested in her, as far as the other guy, bytch slap his ass!
 

Kidd

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If he doesent know you and talks crap about you, that's not cool at all. You can either chillax and diss his ass back, or you can be blunt about it and tell him to keep mis mouth shut.

Either way, he's trying to stomp on you. Dont sit there and take his crap, stand up for yourself.
 
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