"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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How to deal with this?

Kommon

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Damnit, I hate people like this. This guy I sit next to in my 3rd period class pretty much just screwed me over. He was talking to me and was like "Mannn i bet u dont get no ass blah blah blah". I didn't mind him randomly saying crap like that because he doesn't even know me....so I was like whatever. but he went a little too far. After that he whispered to this chick that I was interested....WTF? I don't get this. I'm not even interested in her at all. I really have no idea how to respond to something like this. It was complete bull****, and I don't want to sit next to this guy while he keeps talking like this.
Any ideas on what I should do guys?
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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brenbaus

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first off, if your not interested in this chick, then what are you worried about, she probably thinks you are a wuss anyway because the other guy told her you were interested in her, as far as the other guy, bytch slap his ass!
 

Kidd

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If he doesent know you and talks crap about you, that's not cool at all. You can either chillax and diss his ass back, or you can be blunt about it and tell him to keep mis mouth shut.

Either way, he's trying to stomp on you. Dont sit there and take his crap, stand up for yourself.
 
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