how to deal with this?

[derby1]

"drinks just you and I....Saturday 9pm?"

youve yet again turned UP like a sub missive little puppy and it has got you ****ing nowhere, but you didnt care cause you know your way MUST WORK AT SOME POINT youve been conditioned by movies and social media ie follow her and her mates she will give you the keys to the kingdom!!!!!! .......IT DOESNT WORK

she is leading you are not leading a leader puts the above text ive typed


my mate stalks the **** out of his ex to get her back hes been doing it 6 months hes slowly going insane she catstrings him, hes drinking more alcohol etc etc i told him to vanish off the face of the earth .......he laughed

hes still stalking her a week later.......his way has got to work at some point he tells himself

 

[derby1]

Really hard because she doesnt want that

great response, nail on the head

 

[Ryan Adams]

Really hard because she doesnt want that

I feel like she does but its like she's scared to. she's so touchy feely once she gets drunk. everyone thinks were together because she hovers around me. meanwhile I'm not even near her she comes to me...

 

[Ryan Adams]

so in all honesty is this chick just a no go should I just be a man and move the fvck on? my sappy ass likes her alot. is she just a waste of time?

 

[derby1]

just told ya "DRINKS "X" BAR JUST YOU AND ME "SATURDAY" 8pm?"

when she counter offers another date you say you cant youll be intouch then vanish for a week

your taking the piss now OP

 

[Ryan Adams]

I'm such a pvssy my problem if she says no I know it will make me feel like sh!t and I won't stop thinking about it for awhile but tomorrow I'm gonna ask her. me and her drinks at said bar.

 

[Ryan Adams]

just told ya "DRINKS "X" BAR JUST YOU AND ME "SATURDAY" 8pm?"

when she counter offers another date you say you cant youll be intouch then vanish for a week

your taking the piss now OP

in you opinion what do you think of the situation do you think she likes me or is it up in the air?

 

[derby1]

I'm such a pvssy my problem if she says no I know it will make me feel like sh!t

you are not practising any SoSuave Mindsets you basically want a quickfix to **** this girl, your also scared of rejection, youve even planned the rejection happening the "doubting disease"

you send the text i said no emojis or 10 kisses or GOOD MORNING BEAUTIFUL"

anything other than a reply to confirm details you reply cant do anyother night im afriad im busy, well spk soon"

take in mind its now thursday so trying to tie her down saturday may not work tbf to her ie too soon other plans

 

[Ryan Adams]

I've never said good morning or any heart face emojis at all i just keep it light and tease her. I know for a fact she is going somewhere sat with a group so that's a definite no for sat. Friday idk what she's doing. but I will tell her tom let's get drinks

 

[marmel75]

in you opinion what do you think of the situation do you think she likes me or is it up in the air?

I think you need to stop worrying about her and start dating other women

 

[derby1]

but I will tell her tom let's get drinks

too soon leave it!!! make plans early week for next weekend

 

[derby1]

I think you need to stop worrying about her and start dating other women

He wont do this hes desperate for her! hes been told numerous times get other women on the go,
He doesnt understand that and the reasons why you do that. Its not the way Disney and social media make it look too him, ,.,...our mindset is ludicrous

now he'll sit all weekend wondering about this girl like an 8 year old girl "IN LOVE" little devil on his shoulder telling him to send a few texts

when you date other women OP you find there all the same and not quite as special as you think

I dated a woman before i was experienced i considered her the prize she was a HB 10 in my eyes, worked my way up all week over it

anyway when the date comes she did nothing but swear and sl4g people off, i was repulsed and could not believe the tizwaz id got myself in

 

[Ryan Adams]

I am still talking to other woman but she's my main prize right now. she used to be an ugly girl so I think she's just having fun finally getting attention. like i said when she is buzzed she intentionally touches me and wants to be near me and close to me. it's a mindfvck

 

[derby1]

I am still talking to other woman but she's my main prize right now

give up bro you have oneitis bad, your also weak, you submit to everything she asks,

it's a mindfvck

its a mind**** because your not having sex with 3 other different women , your chatting to them hoping that if you be friendly enough theyll let you stick your **** in them

and so far thats got you.............................................................................................

 

[Ryan Adams]

my thing is lack of patience when I want something to get a quick fix I'll get it. aka like texting a chick I like or going to see her. I need to just trust in the game be patient. me and her all already on good terms I need to be more aloof.

 

[derby1]

my thing is lack of patience when I want something to get a quick fix I'll get it. aka like texting a chick I like or going to see her

women have radars for this behaviour, your behaving like a low value bloke your time isnt precious, and youll roll over like a little puppy

when you are a Leader of your own environment whos time is valuable, she will see this and her vagina will go seriously wet because women want babies by leaders!!!!!!

however you have no chance with this chick she has seen the current you aka "ERIC WIMP"

and if you did get in her pants its because shes bored shell dump you the week after whilst your hamster runs round trying to tie her down

take a year away from her and try again

 

[Ryan Adams]

so should I even fvckin try to ask her or just say fvck it

 

[ohrein]

so should I even fvckin try to ask her or just say fvck it

Do or don't, I don't think it matters. You need to work on your mindset and yourself before you'll be able to actually enjoy dating women. You've said it yourself, you freak out if she doesn't text or call and are scared of rejection. You can use this chick as a learning experience and start working on yourself. I think most of the replies were pretty accurate. You've got oneitis for this girl who doesn't sound particularly special. If you were spinning plates you'd have a more rounded view of women in general and be less focused on this one. If you were leading a busy life you enjoyed, you wouldn't have time to deal with all the excuses and games this girl is playing. If you knew how to lead you'd have already figured out if this girl liked you because you'd have either banged her or been properly rejected during isolation and escalation.

Do whatever you want with this girl because in the long term it doesn't matter. What does matter in the long term is that you actually start to work on your life, your health and your mind. Then you won't need to be asking these questions.

 

[Ryan Adams]

you are very right. I mean i work long hours and have plenty of hobbies but I still to this day at 28 years old am not good at spinning plates I get oneitis and causes me to get my mind racing about thst certain chick.

 

[Ryan Adams]

update: I heard through the grapevine girl has daddy issues. dad left her mom when she was young and is not in her life. so yeah I had to next this one. I haven't seen her baggage yet but girls with daddy issues are a mess when it comes to anything close to a relationship.