Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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LeChanteur

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The other day I was taking one of my girls out and she asked "is this a date" I couldn't really think of anything to say.

I guess it's similar to when a girl says "are you asking me out?"

What are some good lines to use?
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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TillTheEndOfTime

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Originally posted by LeChanteur
The other day I was taking one of my girls out and she asked "is this a date" I couldn't really think of anything to say.

I guess it's similar to when a girl says "are you asking me out?"

What are some good lines to use?
"In your dreams."
 

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Is this a date? Man only calendars have date, you ask her out and thats the answer.

"I am not dating you... I just ask you out... if you want a date, then you might consider paying a big bill because i am too expensive as your date!"
 

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Originally posted by LeChanteur

I guess it's similar to when a girl says "are you asking me out?"
The idea is not to come as AFC (yes yes.. pleeeease) and use c&f, at least c or at least f:
"I'll think about it, if you'll behave today really nice"
 
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