"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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The other day I was taking one of my girls out and she asked "is this a date" I couldn't really think of anything to say.

I guess it's similar to when a girl says "are you asking me out?"

What are some good lines to use?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Originally posted by LeChanteur
The other day I was taking one of my girls out and she asked "is this a date" I couldn't really think of anything to say.

I guess it's similar to when a girl says "are you asking me out?"

What are some good lines to use?
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"In your dreams."
 
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Is this a date? Man only calendars have date, you ask her out and thats the answer.

"I am not dating you... I just ask you out... if you want a date, then you might consider paying a big bill because i am too expensive as your date!"
 
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Originally posted by LeChanteur

I guess it's similar to when a girl says "are you asking me out?"
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The idea is not to come as AFC (yes yes.. pleeeease) and use c&f, at least c or at least f:
"I'll think about it, if you'll behave today really nice"
 
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