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The other day I was taking one of my girls out and she asked "is this a date" I couldn't really think of anything to say.

I guess it's similar to when a girl says "are you asking me out?"

What are some good lines to use?
 

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Originally posted by LeChanteur
The other day I was taking one of my girls out and she asked "is this a date" I couldn't really think of anything to say.

I guess it's similar to when a girl says "are you asking me out?"

What are some good lines to use?
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"In your dreams."
 
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Is this a date? Man only calendars have date, you ask her out and thats the answer.

"I am not dating you... I just ask you out... if you want a date, then you might consider paying a big bill because i am too expensive as your date!"
 
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Originally posted by LeChanteur

I guess it's similar to when a girl says "are you asking me out?"
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The idea is not to come as AFC (yes yes.. pleeeease) and use c&f, at least c or at least f:
"I'll think about it, if you'll behave today really nice"
 
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