How to deal with the trenches?

[Mac]

Hey,

Just wondering how you guys handle the periods of sadness/depression with girls? Not having, break-ups, getting rejected, whatever.

This is obviously something everyone deals with on their path: casanova or total afc. Were all subjected to our bumps in the road.

Any ideas for not getting to down and snapping back into your groove?

-Mac

PS please dotn give me the i am in denial that i am a human and ever get down and always snap out fo it instantly. I am a DJ superman BS. If you really believe this your in denial and have problems.

 

[Kineti[C]harm]

Sorry I have never ever got depressed due to a girl, actually I have never been depressed... I've gotten down a couple of times(never due to girls) due to stuff like death in family, harassment etc but whenever that happens I look at it as the balance of the universe, if stuff happens it happens.

 

[So pimp its scary]

Mac, I have to tell you that sometimes it gets hard to deal with getting shot down by a girl that you've been dating for a while and that everything seemed to be working very well....

Whenever I would get depressed, my parents would always tell me, "Quit crying, go do something." Sometimes I would go kick around a ball with a few buddies, go for a brisk walk, whatever. It always seemed to be the same, I'd get so into what I was doing that I didn't have the time to feel down.

Seeems hard sometimes to pull yourself up when your down, but once you do, and go out and do something.... you'll start feeling better pretty quick.

Sometimes the best way to get over a broken heart is to just throw yourself back into the game.

Hope tthat helps a bt.

 

[PuertoRican_Lover]

I suck my thumb, and curl uo in a fetal position and I cry like a baby for a few weeks! It works for me!