"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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suaveplayer

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ok i think beginning to dig this one chick, except shes not like the others

she seems genuinely friendly to everyone. shes not flirty, but shes always happy, and laughing with everyone. now she has given me a lot of IOIs (such as saying that she has grown fond of me), but i cant figure out if they are "i want you" IOIs or the IOIs she gives to all her friends (trust me she is really friendly to everyone).

anyway, at the beginning i just c+f a lot and teased her and had a lot of fun with her. but now im beginning to like her, like i could really see her as my gf. i want to tell/show her that im more than interested. how would i show this type of girl, becuase she would just interpret every move as more friendliness. should i just come right out???

thanks in advance guys. you guys rock
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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WalkingStick

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Touch her boob.

Not really

Seriously though, kino is absolutely the answer. You WILL know if you escalate kino. Don't do anything stupid (see above) and you'll have your answer in no time.
 

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ok so i get it that i need to be more flirty, kino heavily.
so when i hang out with her, should i be more direct that im interested in her as more than a buddy (that is with more than flirting?)?
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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kazz

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OP have you escalated yet? Kino isn't the be all end all
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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