"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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ok i think beginning to dig this one chick, except shes not like the others

she seems genuinely friendly to everyone. shes not flirty, but shes always happy, and laughing with everyone. now she has given me a lot of IOIs (such as saying that she has grown fond of me), but i cant figure out if they are "i want you" IOIs or the IOIs she gives to all her friends (trust me she is really friendly to everyone).

anyway, at the beginning i just c+f a lot and teased her and had a lot of fun with her. but now im beginning to like her, like i could really see her as my gf. i want to tell/show her that im more than interested. how would i show this type of girl, becuase she would just interpret every move as more friendliness. should i just come right out???

thanks in advance guys. you guys rock
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Touch her boob.

Not really

Seriously though, kino is absolutely the answer. You WILL know if you escalate kino. Don't do anything stupid (see above) and you'll have your answer in no time.
 
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ok so i get it that i need to be more flirty, kino heavily.
so when i hang out with her, should i be more direct that im interested in her as more than a buddy (that is with more than flirting?)?
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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OP have you escalated yet? Kino isn't the be all end all
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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