"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
How To Deal With Silent Treatment From Gf
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"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
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I need to let this one go.. the last 2 years have been a roller coaster ride with her..
There is no chance of us living together again.. i deserve more out of life than this..
Next week i am starting a course, to train as a door man in bars clubs etc.. perfect place to make new friends to socialise, and hey meet lots of new woman
This is a positive step i am taking.. i also need to work on myself and not let woman get me angry, even when they disrespect me.. i will just walk away.
Thanks for your help.. will do my best to find a better girl and improve myself.
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Yeh i love this girl, had some special times with her.. so yes i am finding it hard to let her go..
You seem like a very angry guy... calling me a piece of chit, you don't even know me.. faggot
Very bitter sounding guy you are... anyhow how guys thank you for your support, sorry for ranting on.. will get my chit together and move on..
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Im only saying it so you can see how pathetic you are. Ive seen you on bodybuilding.com too. You are posting in hope to see a post that tell you that what you are doing is correct.
You will die miserable if you do not find your masculinity. Masculinity is greater than anything for a man. Whats love? Find your core and the woman you will be with next will respect you like you were a king.
Now man da phuck up.