"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
How To Deal With Silent Treatment From Gf
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
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Take steps today to further your SMV: Diet, exercise, work, wealth-creation. Take action today and punch "life" right back on its face.
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I need to let this one go.. the last 2 years have been a roller coaster ride with her..
There is no chance of us living together again.. i deserve more out of life than this..
Next week i am starting a course, to train as a door man in bars clubs etc.. perfect place to make new friends to socialise, and hey meet lots of new woman
This is a positive step i am taking.. i also need to work on myself and not let woman get me angry, even when they disrespect me.. i will just walk away.
Thanks for your help.. will do my best to find a better girl and improve myself.
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Yeh i love this girl, had some special times with her.. so yes i am finding it hard to let her go..
You seem like a very angry guy... calling me a piece of chit, you don't even know me.. faggot
Very bitter sounding guy you are... anyhow how guys thank you for your support, sorry for ranting on.. will get my chit together and move on..
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Im only saying it so you can see how pathetic you are. Ive seen you on bodybuilding.com too. You are posting in hope to see a post that tell you that what you are doing is correct.
You will die miserable if you do not find your masculinity. Masculinity is greater than anything for a man. Whats love? Find your core and the woman you will be with next will respect you like you were a king.
Now man da phuck up.