"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
How To Deal With Silent Treatment From Gf
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
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Take steps today to further your SMV: Diet, exercise, work, wealth-creation. Take action today and punch "life" right back on its face.
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I need to let this one go.. the last 2 years have been a roller coaster ride with her..
There is no chance of us living together again.. i deserve more out of life than this..
Next week i am starting a course, to train as a door man in bars clubs etc.. perfect place to make new friends to socialise, and hey meet lots of new woman
This is a positive step i am taking.. i also need to work on myself and not let woman get me angry, even when they disrespect me.. i will just walk away.
Thanks for your help.. will do my best to find a better girl and improve myself.
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Yeh i love this girl, had some special times with her.. so yes i am finding it hard to let her go..
You seem like a very angry guy... calling me a piece of chit, you don't even know me.. faggot
Very bitter sounding guy you are... anyhow how guys thank you for your support, sorry for ranting on.. will get my chit together and move on..
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Im only saying it so you can see how pathetic you are. Ive seen you on bodybuilding.com too. You are posting in hope to see a post that tell you that what you are doing is correct.
You will die miserable if you do not find your masculinity. Masculinity is greater than anything for a man. Whats love? Find your core and the woman you will be with next will respect you like you were a king.
Now man da phuck up.