How To Deal With Shy Girls?

[mackdaknife]

There are a couple of shy girls who make it a habit to stare at me whenever they see me. However, when I attempt to talk to them, their body language is closed and/or conflicted making the interactions awkward.

For example, there's this exotic persian or latin looking brunette who stares at me for prolonged periods over her shoulder. However, when we talk, she can only do so briefly before she turns her back to me and starts to walk away and ignore me.

What works in getting shy girls to open up?

 

[Answers]

Low self confidence so they run rather than talk...

To get them to open up takes time. They must feel comfortable with you first. To get them talking is a different matter..

 

[WC2]

To me it sounds like you are making them feel awkward.. you need to open the conversation up, said what needs to be said, get her info and CLOSE the conversation. If you leave it open too long she will be forced to close it.. and guess what she's shy so she's probably going to just walk away.

 

[mackdaknife]

There's a second girl who actually worked up the nerve to actually open me. However, when my buddy asked her to evaluate my appearance, she turned extremely shy. She said "he looks ok" then turned her body around 180 degrees with her back to me, and her face turning bright red!