"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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How To Deal With Shy Girls?

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There are a couple of shy girls who make it a habit to stare at me whenever they see me. However, when I attempt to talk to them, their body language is closed and/or conflicted making the interactions awkward.

For example, there's this exotic persian or latin looking brunette who stares at me for prolonged periods over her shoulder. However, when we talk, she can only do so briefly before she turns her back to me and starts to walk away and ignore me.

What works in getting shy girls to open up?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Low self confidence so they run rather than talk...

To get them to open up takes time. They must feel comfortable with you first. To get them talking is a different matter..
 
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To me it sounds like you are making them feel awkward.. you need to open the conversation up, said what needs to be said, get her info and CLOSE the conversation. If you leave it open too long she will be forced to close it.. and guess what she's shy so she's probably going to just walk away.
 
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There's a second girl who actually worked up the nerve to actually open me. However, when my buddy asked her to evaluate my appearance, she turned extremely shy. She said "he looks ok" then turned her body around 180 degrees with her back to me, and her face turning bright red!
 
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