Rejection is a very difficult obstacle to deal with in everyday life. It is also the toughest roadblock to overcome when you are approaching women. I received a comment from a subscriber that made a lot of sense. He asked me about a situation where I was rejected and how I overcame it. Here’s a story:
I had class with this really hot girl named Ashley. I tried to approach her in class and she seemed very cold and not interested. So, I asked her if she wanted to hang out sometime and she kinda blew me off. I took it to heart and didn’t talk to her for a week. Then, I saw her again the next week and she was looking really hott with a nice skirt and her tan skin was showin too. She was Italian, 5′7, and had grace and style. I’m like everybody else I like a challenge!
I walked up to her and said,“are you normally this cold to guys because I’m not like the other guys… Your coming to this party I’m having this weekend and no is not an acceptable answer.” I know what your thinking I’m out of line and I should get slapped! Well the exact opposite happened… She smiled at me and said, “Ok I’ll come.” Then I said “what’s your number I’ll call you on Friday.” She left me her digits.
There’s something that I did in this situation that was able to turn the table on her being cold towards me. Very attractive women are used to getting their way with guys. Women don’t like nice guys; why is it that really attractive women are attracted to bad boys? I’m not saying to be a jerk to women but the key here is to be able to add a little ****iness to your words and be direct with her. Remember when your saying it to add a little grin; women love the naughty boy grin. Grade school is a good example of this girls loved the boys who teased them more and more. Had I said “hey, do you wanna come to this party?” She would have made an excuse to why she wouldn’t have been able to make it.
When women reject you, never take it to heart. Girls do this to wheat out the nice guys that don’t deserve to be with them. NEVER let rejection affect your game you have to bounce back. It’s like being down in a basketball game and you have the chance to win the game. Are you going to win it or lose it?
I had class with this really hot girl named Ashley. I tried to approach her in class and she seemed very cold and not interested. So, I asked her if she wanted to hang out sometime and she kinda blew me off. I took it to heart and didn’t talk to her for a week. Then, I saw her again the next week and she was looking really hott with a nice skirt and her tan skin was showin too. She was Italian, 5′7, and had grace and style. I’m like everybody else I like a challenge!
I walked up to her and said,“are you normally this cold to guys because I’m not like the other guys… Your coming to this party I’m having this weekend and no is not an acceptable answer.” I know what your thinking I’m out of line and I should get slapped! Well the exact opposite happened… She smiled at me and said, “Ok I’ll come.” Then I said “what’s your number I’ll call you on Friday.” She left me her digits.
There’s something that I did in this situation that was able to turn the table on her being cold towards me. Very attractive women are used to getting their way with guys. Women don’t like nice guys; why is it that really attractive women are attracted to bad boys? I’m not saying to be a jerk to women but the key here is to be able to add a little ****iness to your words and be direct with her. Remember when your saying it to add a little grin; women love the naughty boy grin. Grade school is a good example of this girls loved the boys who teased them more and more. Had I said “hey, do you wanna come to this party?” She would have made an excuse to why she wouldn’t have been able to make it.
When women reject you, never take it to heart. Girls do this to wheat out the nice guys that don’t deserve to be with them. NEVER let rejection affect your game you have to bounce back. It’s like being down in a basketball game and you have the chance to win the game. Are you going to win it or lose it?
