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Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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How to deal with physical girls?

smoooth

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Physical asin punching, kicking, and generally inflicting pain on guys.

I've known this girl for some time and recently, she's been increasingly physical, as in physically attacking me. Should I take this as a sign of interest, even though she's got a bf, but I'm sure he just lets her wail on him? Of course, I don't let her do as she please, because I'll wrestle her to the ground and tickle her. But this girl, she does not back down. Raised with 4 brothers, she does not hold back her punches. What would a true DJ do to tame this wild mustang?
 

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She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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i dont rightly know

maybe get the better of her, hold her down and spank her ass

she might enjoy that, who knows
 

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smoooth said:
I've known this girl for some time and recently, she's been increasingly physical, as in physically attacking me. Should I take this as a sign of interest
Why would you think that's a sign of interest?! I'm genuinely curious...

I grew up with 3 brothers around me but I don't feel the need to inflict pain on men, women or animals.
 

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She has a bf, backoff and spend your time on something/someone more productive.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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smoooth said:
Physical asin punching, kicking, and generally inflicting pain on guys.

I've known this girl for some time and recently, she's been increasingly physical, as in physically attacking me. Should I take this as a sign of interest, even though she's got a bf, but I'm sure he just lets her wail on him? Of course, I don't let her do as she please, because I'll wrestle her to the ground and tickle her. But this girl, she does not back down. Raised with 4 brothers, she does not hold back her punches. What would a true DJ do to tame this wild mustang?
If she punches you, get her in a sleeper hold. You want to use your forearm and your bicep to cut off her air supply, and block her carotid artery, with your other forearm, squeeze intense pressure on the forehead. After about 30-40 seconds, she will pass out. And after the first time, you offer her a warning. "If you fukk with me, I'll put your ass to sleep again"
 

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What is it with all of you guys wanting girls that have boyfriends?

That is soooo not suave, and really just an overall dumb idea.

This one attacks you physically. Double whammy.

Drop her completely and re-evaluate your radar dude.
 

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JackPrescott said:
If she punches you, get her in a sleeper hold. You want to use your forearm and your bicep to cut off her air supply, and block her carotid artery, with your other forearm, squeeze intense pressure on the forehead. After about 30-40 seconds, she will pass out. And after the first time, you offer her a warning. "If you fukk with me, I'll put your ass to sleep again"
dont go for the airway, that takes too long

position you biciep on one side of her neck, and you forarm on teh other

block off those carotid, and without blood, the brain will blank out in 5 seconds

release her immediately after she passes out
 

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A good kick or punch to the bladder will most likely discourage her. Eye gouges, kicks to the knee, floating ribs are also good places to land your strikes.
 

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I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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This single chick does this 2 me. I punch her in her leg or knee when she does it. I try to ignore her and not speak to her at all other times...with all the heavybag training, I could go Matt Serra on her a$$..
 

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Knock her in the face with a sack of nickles. j/k
 
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