"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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How to deal with physical girls?

smoooth

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Physical asin punching, kicking, and generally inflicting pain on guys.

I've known this girl for some time and recently, she's been increasingly physical, as in physically attacking me. Should I take this as a sign of interest, even though she's got a bf, but I'm sure he just lets her wail on him? Of course, I don't let her do as she please, because I'll wrestle her to the ground and tickle her. But this girl, she does not back down. Raised with 4 brothers, she does not hold back her punches. What would a true DJ do to tame this wild mustang?
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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i dont rightly know

maybe get the better of her, hold her down and spank her ass

she might enjoy that, who knows
 

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smoooth said:
I've known this girl for some time and recently, she's been increasingly physical, as in physically attacking me. Should I take this as a sign of interest
Why would you think that's a sign of interest?! I'm genuinely curious...

I grew up with 3 brothers around me but I don't feel the need to inflict pain on men, women or animals.
 

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She has a bf, backoff and spend your time on something/someone more productive.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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smoooth said:
Physical asin punching, kicking, and generally inflicting pain on guys.

I've known this girl for some time and recently, she's been increasingly physical, as in physically attacking me. Should I take this as a sign of interest, even though she's got a bf, but I'm sure he just lets her wail on him? Of course, I don't let her do as she please, because I'll wrestle her to the ground and tickle her. But this girl, she does not back down. Raised with 4 brothers, she does not hold back her punches. What would a true DJ do to tame this wild mustang?
If she punches you, get her in a sleeper hold. You want to use your forearm and your bicep to cut off her air supply, and block her carotid artery, with your other forearm, squeeze intense pressure on the forehead. After about 30-40 seconds, she will pass out. And after the first time, you offer her a warning. "If you fukk with me, I'll put your ass to sleep again"
 

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What is it with all of you guys wanting girls that have boyfriends?

That is soooo not suave, and really just an overall dumb idea.

This one attacks you physically. Double whammy.

Drop her completely and re-evaluate your radar dude.
 

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JackPrescott said:
If she punches you, get her in a sleeper hold. You want to use your forearm and your bicep to cut off her air supply, and block her carotid artery, with your other forearm, squeeze intense pressure on the forehead. After about 30-40 seconds, she will pass out. And after the first time, you offer her a warning. "If you fukk with me, I'll put your ass to sleep again"
dont go for the airway, that takes too long

position you biciep on one side of her neck, and you forarm on teh other

block off those carotid, and without blood, the brain will blank out in 5 seconds

release her immediately after she passes out
 

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A good kick or punch to the bladder will most likely discourage her. Eye gouges, kicks to the knee, floating ribs are also good places to land your strikes.
 

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You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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This single chick does this 2 me. I punch her in her leg or knee when she does it. I try to ignore her and not speak to her at all other times...with all the heavybag training, I could go Matt Serra on her a$$..
 

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Knock her in the face with a sack of nickles. j/k
 
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