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How to deal with nasty family members

Stephen89

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So I've got this cousin and not once has he talked about my how is my programming job hunt going, he hasn't even said how did your exams go or how did your whole year go for my degree the last 2.5 years. He knows exactly what I'm doing.

He always talks about himself, saying "at uni, women fancy men, and women fancy me".

He also said "I want to buy a car", I will do this and that after my masters. He was also talking about his height, how he is the tallest out of the family and how his brother has long arm and legs otherwise he would be tall.

He always ignores me out of everyone and talks to my sister and other cousins, however not me, every time at family party, functions, party in the last 3 years.

I also had to go to his house yesterday.

First thing he did was talking to my sister and he said "how was the thing you went to".

He didn't even acknowledge me regarding if I'm working or how's my job search going.

His mom also acts strange she said a couple of weeks ago "so what can you cook" and she asked me if I wanted extra food "I said it's all right" and she got me some anyway and she was talking to her son about how ambiguous I am in saying " all right" which could mean yes or no like taking the piss out of me.

The thing is, he and his cousin in law have been looking at my Facebook to check on my status updates, I right click on source code, then cltr+f, then type in the box view friends list, I hunted down his Facebook code with his other cousin in law next to his code this has happened twice now on Facebook, one in August and another one now. So they must be communicating regarding what I'm doing now.
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

dustmuffin

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If a person gives two s hits about you, then you give one or none. Ignore him and don't worry about what people say or do.

It seems that you have confidence issues. Am I correct in that assumption?
 

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Do you even NEED to associate with this guy? I never bothered with my cousins much. One was a dik, and the others, while polite, pretty much ignored me growing up. We had nothing in common either.

Now, you might have to still be polite to him because his father and mother is still your uncle and aunt. But keep the conversations short and your visits with them short as well. "I have to get going. I'm working on something for school/work."

You're not gonna fix or change the guy. Just cut the contact down to the minimum.
 

Who Dares Win

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Why do you have to deal with them? just because you're supposed to be family?

If you dont like someones company or believe it doesnt add anything in your life just drop them.

Unless you have a business partnership or common properties just delete them from your life.

Btw can you elaborate about that source code, did I get wrong or u can see who check ur fb?
 

Stephen89

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Thanks for the replies.

I wouldn't say I'm under confident, I have a problem with being assertive, however, I'm seeing a therapist regarding this.

You can see who checked your Facebook by going on your home page, in the empty space on the left hand side, right clicking the mouse, then select 'view page source' something like that and when you get onto this page, click on cltr + f and then type 'initial chat friends list': I got this from here:

I checked in September who's viewed my fb and seen him with his cousin in law checking my fb profile together via their codes being right next to each other and again recently. He doesn't come log in to fb, only when it is needed to. He hasn't updated his pic for 6 years.
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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It's very simple. Jettison toxic people from your life and get on with it. I don't care who they are.

Then you aren't engaged in a bunch of BS drama which wastes time & energy, your two most precious and limited assets.
 
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