How to deal with / manage situations like this

[gsintx]

There is this disrespectful gay dude that my girlfriend is friendly with (in terms of just hugging and saying hello, nothing more). I've observed he's disrespectful to a good number of dudes (my guess is he's overempowered due to current political climate and him being 6'4). (For example: two weeks ago he got arrested for disorderly conduct after mouthing off to a cop after being found sleeping on the hood of someone else's car). Last week, he completely ghosted my handshake (noticed he did that to a mutual friend too). What are my options here? I wouldn't mind giving him a nice smack if he provokes me...

Thanks in advance

 

[derby1]

I advocate violence when needed to authorise respect,

I had a mate who used to use violence if anyone disrespected him, I was the nice guy who let people sleep over at mine if they had had one too many or an argument with their missus..

Everyone bought him a beer, no one ever bought me a beer the kind good guy.

 

[AttackFormation]

There is this disrespectful gay dude that my girlfriend is friendly with (in terms of just hugging and saying hello, nothing more). I've observed he's disrespectful to a good number of dudes (my guess is he's overempowered due to current political climate and him being 6'4). (For example: two weeks ago he got arrested for disorderly conduct after mouthing off to a cop after being found sleeping on the hood of someone else's car). Last week, he completely ghosted my handshake (noticed he did that to a mutual friend too). What are my options here? I wouldn't mind giving him a nice smack if he provokes me...

Thanks in advance

Where do you encounter this guy?

I advocate violence when needed to authorise respect,

I had a mate who used to use violence if anyone disrespected him, I was the nice guy who let people sleep over at mine if they had had one too many or an argument with their missus..

Everyone bought him a beer, no one ever bought me a beer the kind good guy.

Was this the same hot criminal guy the women were all over?

 

[derby1]

Was this the same hot criminal guy the women were all over?

no another, he was his debt collector, (christ this sounds like a great drama lol)

still to see everyone buy him drinks, and buy me sod all when id let them stop at my apartment the week before,

I was being red pilled without even realising it

 

[gsintx]

Where do you encounter this guy?



Was this the same hot criminal guy the women were all over?

he's in our mutual friends circle but hes not a friend.

He's gay. So, he's not sleeping with your girl.

It shouldn't bother you.

Don't pay him any attention anymore, when you cross paths.

thanks for the response

 

[gsintx]

He's gay. So, he's not sleeping with your girl.

It shouldn't bother you.

Don't pay him any attention anymore, when you cross paths.

Thank you

 

[Black Widow Void]

Tempting as this may be, he sounds like the type that will scream "hate crime."

I'm one of the few members here that doesn't have a problem with gay folks. However, I do have a problem with flamboyance or attitudes (no matter the race, gender, etc...).

I once knew a gay guy (close friend of an old girlfriend) that was quite jealous over the fact that I was taking her away from him (he was the "queen" type that loved attention) . He reminds me a lot of this gay dude that you're describing. I found that if you give the girl enough good sex, she'll lose interest in a gay male that can't.

 

[bat soup]

There is this disrespectful gay dude that my girlfriend is friendly with (in terms of just hugging and saying hello, nothing more). I've observed he's disrespectful to a good number of dudes (my guess is he's overempowered due to current political climate and him being 6'4). (For example: two weeks ago he got arrested for disorderly conduct after mouthing off to a cop after being found sleeping on the hood of someone else's car). Last week, he completely ghosted my handshake (noticed he did that to a mutual friend too). What are my options here? I wouldn't mind giving him a nice smack if he provokes me...

Thanks in advance

Wait for him to fall asleep on top of your car, then slowly drive it to Saudi Arabia.