"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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How to deal with home phone number when the girl lives with her parents?

Shivastorm_88

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I got this girl's number that I just met this weekend, however she doesn't have a cell (or so she says) so instead she gave me her home phone number. Thing is, she still lives with her parents/brothers/sisters/cat/fish/dog or whichever, so what's the best approach if I don't get a hold of her when I call, either a voice mail or someone else in the house? message? try to call back later? cry myself to sleep in fetal position?
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Mr. Bond

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Mr. X? Oh hey, I'm Shivastorm. What? Oh yeah, I know your daughter. Is she there? Gotcha. Well tell you what. I'd love to bang the sh*t out of her so put in the good word for me and I'll call back some other time. Great talking to you too! Bye!
 

Shivastorm_88

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Mr. Bond said:
Mr. X? Oh hey, I'm Shivastorm. What? Oh yeah, I know your daughter. Is she there? Gotcha. Well tell you what. I'd love to bang the sh*t out of her so put in the good word for me and I'll call back some other time. Great talking to you too! Bye!
I tried that, didn't work out too well -_-

haha nah J/K I don't even know why I asked for help about this it was pretty much pointless to worry about such trivial matter
 

Mr. Bond

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Shivastorm_88 said:
haha nah J/K I don't even know why I asked for help about this it was pretty much pointless to worry about such trivial matter
Good! Don't sweat the small stuff. It's really not important. Just call.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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