"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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How to deal with home phone number when the girl lives with her parents?

Shivastorm_88

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I got this girl's number that I just met this weekend, however she doesn't have a cell (or so she says) so instead she gave me her home phone number. Thing is, she still lives with her parents/brothers/sisters/cat/fish/dog or whichever, so what's the best approach if I don't get a hold of her when I call, either a voice mail or someone else in the house? message? try to call back later? cry myself to sleep in fetal position?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Mr. Bond

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Mr. X? Oh hey, I'm Shivastorm. What? Oh yeah, I know your daughter. Is she there? Gotcha. Well tell you what. I'd love to bang the sh*t out of her so put in the good word for me and I'll call back some other time. Great talking to you too! Bye!
 

Shivastorm_88

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Mr. Bond said:
Mr. X? Oh hey, I'm Shivastorm. What? Oh yeah, I know your daughter. Is she there? Gotcha. Well tell you what. I'd love to bang the sh*t out of her so put in the good word for me and I'll call back some other time. Great talking to you too! Bye!
I tried that, didn't work out too well -_-

haha nah J/K I don't even know why I asked for help about this it was pretty much pointless to worry about such trivial matter
 

Mr. Bond

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Shivastorm_88 said:
haha nah J/K I don't even know why I asked for help about this it was pretty much pointless to worry about such trivial matter
Good! Don't sweat the small stuff. It's really not important. Just call.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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