"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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How to Deal With Friend Unknowingly ****blocking...?

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foomee

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This girl I've been hooking up with the past few weeks, I go to her house a couple times a week and occasionally I'll bring my friend. From what all my female friends say, he's the best looking out of our group, he's funny, blah blah blah, all that, but he has a girlfriend. But all night last night he was flirting with the girl I've been getting with and it really started to annoy me. He does it unknowingly, that's just the kind of guy he is. He has the whole C+F thing down and everything, girls love it. I'd like to bring him along to her place, but I don't want him getting all the attention and attracting her. What should I do? Should I just flat out tell him to quit flirting? Or should I attempt to be the one making her laugh? I'm thinking maybe asking him to back off a little, he knows I'm into her and everything, but to him, teasing and talking to her is just him having fun...
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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I guess my question would be why are you bringing your boy with you to this girl's house? Maybe you should just go it alone? It's tough to ask someone to not be who they are naturally.
 
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Are you looking for drama? why the hell bring your friend over to her house?

Do not answer that I will answer it for you. It is because you are subconsciously sabotaging yourself. You bring your more attractive and charming friend over to the house of the girl you are sleeping with. I mean really does your conscious mind not realize how stupid that is. I got an idea next time bring Brad Pitt, Vin Diesel and Johnny Depp. Actually bring an attractive single billionaire with a 10 inch penis who is looking to marry the first attractive female he finds and not have her sign a prenup.

You are not in high school do not bring your buddies over to your f*ck buddies house unless he has a video camera and she is willing to be taped.
 
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