"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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How to Deal With Friend Unknowingly ****blocking...?

foomee

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This girl I've been hooking up with the past few weeks, I go to her house a couple times a week and occasionally I'll bring my friend. From what all my female friends say, he's the best looking out of our group, he's funny, blah blah blah, all that, but he has a girlfriend. But all night last night he was flirting with the girl I've been getting with and it really started to annoy me. He does it unknowingly, that's just the kind of guy he is. He has the whole C+F thing down and everything, girls love it. I'd like to bring him along to her place, but I don't want him getting all the attention and attracting her. What should I do? Should I just flat out tell him to quit flirting? Or should I attempt to be the one making her laugh? I'm thinking maybe asking him to back off a little, he knows I'm into her and everything, but to him, teasing and talking to her is just him having fun...
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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PhatE1vis

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I guess my question would be why are you bringing your boy with you to this girl's house? Maybe you should just go it alone? It's tough to ask someone to not be who they are naturally.
 

NickBe

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Are you looking for drama? why the hell bring your friend over to her house?

Do not answer that I will answer it for you. It is because you are subconsciously sabotaging yourself. You bring your more attractive and charming friend over to the house of the girl you are sleeping with. I mean really does your conscious mind not realize how stupid that is. I got an idea next time bring Brad Pitt, Vin Diesel and Johnny Depp. Actually bring an attractive single billionaire with a 10 inch penis who is looking to marry the first attractive female he finds and not have her sign a prenup.

You are not in high school do not bring your buddies over to your f*ck buddies house unless he has a video camera and she is willing to be taped.
 
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