Whats the best way to deal with a girl who just constantly flirts with almost every guy? I dont wanna be like every1 else, im not really that into her but i just wanna see how far i can take it. She gives signals like crazy, but i dont think they are genuine and im not really sure on how to handle it. I treat her like every other girl, but whats something else that i can do to bring it to another level?
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
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Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
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Charm&Style
Master Don Juan
I love screwing around with total flirts.
Bro, flirt with her back, you can easily take her out on the first date, on your first date is where all the fun begins.
Fvck with her mind like crazy, flirt a little with other girls, talk on your cell for a while, tease her like crazy, dont laugh at her jokes or cuteness, everyonce in a while reel her in.
By the end of the nite, if done right, youll be able to kiss close, after the kiss glance at her from top to bottem, give a smirk, say huh not to bad, and leave.
Next day at school act as if u didnt know, shell be going pyscho.
Bro, flirt with her back, you can easily take her out on the first date, on your first date is where all the fun begins.
Fvck with her mind like crazy, flirt a little with other girls, talk on your cell for a while, tease her like crazy, dont laugh at her jokes or cuteness, everyonce in a while reel her in.
By the end of the nite, if done right, youll be able to kiss close, after the kiss glance at her from top to bottem, give a smirk, say huh not to bad, and leave.
Next day at school act as if u didnt know, shell be going pyscho.
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Charm&Style
Master Don Juan
haha ok so let me get this straigh.
this girl is a total flirt, and has a bf.
Do you want her?
There are many diff ways to get a girl who has a bf. But what are your motives
this girl is a total flirt, and has a bf.
Do you want her?
There are many diff ways to get a girl who has a bf. But what are your motives
Michele l'Arcangelo
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actually... **** what this site says... ignoring a girl is stupid... even just a little bit... at LEAST acknowledge their presence.
she will NOT go crazy if you ignore her... she will think "this guy doesn't want me... i can get other guys, oh well."
just talk to her like a normal person about interesting topics that she's REALLY into. and if you see that she is enjoying it... pinch her nipples. just kidding... anyways...
if shes enjoying it put on some friendly contact... ya know.
let it escalate.
flirting back is what every other guy she flirts with does... the only reason she still flirts with them is because they give her the attention she hungers for.
thats why you won't flirt back just because she flirts with you... make her try... REALLY TRY... to impress YOU.
(think of something you REALLY REALLY wanted... and you TRIED to get it and you never got it... and while you're doing something else some other time... your heart beats fast thinking of how much you want it... that's what you want this flirty girl to do with you."
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sum it all up:
1) ignoring a girl makes her think you're not interested.
2) flirting back makes her think you're easy
3) making her try hard [with you] makes her excited.
and think of it with the tables turned... who is more appealing?
(and note that i didn't add negative words to 1 and 2... and i didn't embellish 3... like everybody else would)
she will NOT go crazy if you ignore her... she will think "this guy doesn't want me... i can get other guys, oh well."
just talk to her like a normal person about interesting topics that she's REALLY into. and if you see that she is enjoying it... pinch her nipples. just kidding... anyways...
if shes enjoying it put on some friendly contact... ya know.
let it escalate.
flirting back is what every other guy she flirts with does... the only reason she still flirts with them is because they give her the attention she hungers for.
thats why you won't flirt back just because she flirts with you... make her try... REALLY TRY... to impress YOU.
(think of something you REALLY REALLY wanted... and you TRIED to get it and you never got it... and while you're doing something else some other time... your heart beats fast thinking of how much you want it... that's what you want this flirty girl to do with you."
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sum it all up:
1) ignoring a girl makes her think you're not interested.
2) flirting back makes her think you're easy
3) making her try hard [with you] makes her excited.
and think of it with the tables turned... who is more appealing?
(and note that i didn't add negative words to 1 and 2... and i didn't embellish 3... like everybody else would)