Whats the best way to deal with a girl who just constantly flirts with almost every guy? I dont wanna be like every1 else, im not really that into her but i just wanna see how far i can take it. She gives signals like crazy, but i dont think they are genuine and im not really sure on how to handle it. I treat her like every other girl, but whats something else that i can do to bring it to another level?
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
how to deal with flirts
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"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Charm&Style
Master Don Juan
I love screwing around with total flirts.
Bro, flirt with her back, you can easily take her out on the first date, on your first date is where all the fun begins.
Fvck with her mind like crazy, flirt a little with other girls, talk on your cell for a while, tease her like crazy, dont laugh at her jokes or cuteness, everyonce in a while reel her in.
By the end of the nite, if done right, youll be able to kiss close, after the kiss glance at her from top to bottem, give a smirk, say huh not to bad, and leave.
Next day at school act as if u didnt know, shell be going pyscho.
Bro, flirt with her back, you can easily take her out on the first date, on your first date is where all the fun begins.
Fvck with her mind like crazy, flirt a little with other girls, talk on your cell for a while, tease her like crazy, dont laugh at her jokes or cuteness, everyonce in a while reel her in.
By the end of the nite, if done right, youll be able to kiss close, after the kiss glance at her from top to bottem, give a smirk, say huh not to bad, and leave.
Next day at school act as if u didnt know, shell be going pyscho.
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
Charm&Style
Master Don Juan
haha ok so let me get this straigh.
this girl is a total flirt, and has a bf.
Do you want her?
There are many diff ways to get a girl who has a bf. But what are your motives
this girl is a total flirt, and has a bf.
Do you want her?
There are many diff ways to get a girl who has a bf. But what are your motives
Michele l'Arcangelo
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actually... **** what this site says... ignoring a girl is stupid... even just a little bit... at LEAST acknowledge their presence.
she will NOT go crazy if you ignore her... she will think "this guy doesn't want me... i can get other guys, oh well."
just talk to her like a normal person about interesting topics that she's REALLY into. and if you see that she is enjoying it... pinch her nipples. just kidding... anyways...
if shes enjoying it put on some friendly contact... ya know.
let it escalate.
flirting back is what every other guy she flirts with does... the only reason she still flirts with them is because they give her the attention she hungers for.
thats why you won't flirt back just because she flirts with you... make her try... REALLY TRY... to impress YOU.
(think of something you REALLY REALLY wanted... and you TRIED to get it and you never got it... and while you're doing something else some other time... your heart beats fast thinking of how much you want it... that's what you want this flirty girl to do with you."
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sum it all up:
1) ignoring a girl makes her think you're not interested.
2) flirting back makes her think you're easy
3) making her try hard [with you] makes her excited.
and think of it with the tables turned... who is more appealing?
(and note that i didn't add negative words to 1 and 2... and i didn't embellish 3... like everybody else would)
she will NOT go crazy if you ignore her... she will think "this guy doesn't want me... i can get other guys, oh well."
just talk to her like a normal person about interesting topics that she's REALLY into. and if you see that she is enjoying it... pinch her nipples. just kidding... anyways...
if shes enjoying it put on some friendly contact... ya know.
let it escalate.
flirting back is what every other guy she flirts with does... the only reason she still flirts with them is because they give her the attention she hungers for.
thats why you won't flirt back just because she flirts with you... make her try... REALLY TRY... to impress YOU.
(think of something you REALLY REALLY wanted... and you TRIED to get it and you never got it... and while you're doing something else some other time... your heart beats fast thinking of how much you want it... that's what you want this flirty girl to do with you."
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sum it all up:
1) ignoring a girl makes her think you're not interested.
2) flirting back makes her think you're easy
3) making her try hard [with you] makes her excited.
and think of it with the tables turned... who is more appealing?
(and note that i didn't add negative words to 1 and 2... and i didn't embellish 3... like everybody else would)