"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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How to deal with flaky girls?

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oneboy21

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I work at a place and there are lot of girls come there( its a store basically)
i talk to them casually for few secs, i really don't know why, they assume that i am interested in them, and later after couple of visits they act like they are interested in me and when i give or take numbers, they end up flaking with me
this happened so many times, where exactly i am doing wrong?
I would like to improve, please provide your suggestions
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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oneboy21 said:
I work at a place and there are lot of girls come there( its a store basically)
i talk to them casually for few secs, i really don't know why, they assume that i am interested in them, and later after couple of visits they act like they are interested in me and when i give or take numbers, they end up flaking with me
this happened so many times, where exactly i am doing wrong?
I would like to improve, please provide your suggestions
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3 Warning Signs She'll Flake on a Date by "Yours Truly ;) "
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ATP

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Phone numbers usually end up with flaking for one hundred different reasons. It's annoying. Try to get them to go take a cup of coffee or similar straight away so there is no chance for flaking.
 
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