"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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How to deal with flaky girls?

oneboy21

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I work at a place and there are lot of girls come there( its a store basically)
i talk to them casually for few secs, i really don't know why, they assume that i am interested in them, and later after couple of visits they act like they are interested in me and when i give or take numbers, they end up flaking with me
this happened so many times, where exactly i am doing wrong?
I would like to improve, please provide your suggestions
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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oneboy21 said:
I work at a place and there are lot of girls come there( its a store basically)
i talk to them casually for few secs, i really don't know why, they assume that i am interested in them, and later after couple of visits they act like they are interested in me and when i give or take numbers, they end up flaking with me
this happened so many times, where exactly i am doing wrong?
I would like to improve, please provide your suggestions
3 Warning Signs She'll Flake on a Date by "Yours Truly ;) "
http://www.twitvid.com/CEBFA
 

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Phone numbers usually end up with flaking for one hundred different reasons. It's annoying. Try to get them to go take a cup of coffee or similar straight away so there is no chance for flaking.
 
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