how to deal with female insecurities

[Irrational male]

I have recently joined this community and have read quite a few red pill books. It feels like learning to walk again. There is one situation which I have not found covered and where I am not sure how to act.

I usually feel lost when female starts complaining that she is fat, I do not know what should I respond. She must be looking for validation that she is sexy, but is it in my best interest to provide it or should I say something else. And in what way should my response differ in case she is actually chubby?

 

[Reykhel]

The fvck you doing with complaining fat bytches, dog?

anybody complains to you about something that you can't do anything about...
you can simply point out the folly of their complaint by asking them "anything I can do
for you?". If they have any intelligence they should realise the uselessness of their complaining...

.....or tell her..."well go jog around the block and put the fork down"

her self esteem or validation is not your concern nor is it your job to be her conduit for her complaints (that's the job of her orbitors )

 

[Serenity]

If she isn't then disagree. If she is then don't lie, say something like "so what?". Do you give a sh!t or is it a problem to you if her insecurity is true? If not then just ignore it or tell her she's wrong, period.

If my girlfriend told me she's ugly I would laugh and tell her to shut the fvck up with that bullsh!t. She doesn't complain though, I could handle if she did on rare occasions, but if it became a habit I'd be happy to validate her belief. Insecurity and negative self-view is a massive turn off, meaning if she thinks she's ugly she's right because she thinks so.

 

[Reykhel]

If she isn't then disagree. If she is then don't lie, say something like "so what?". Do you give a sh!t or is it a problem to you if her insecurity is true? If not then just ignore it or tell her she's wrong, period.

If my girlfriend told me she's ugly I would laugh and tell her to shut the fvck up with that bullsh!t. She doesn't complain though, I could handle if she did on rare occasions, but if it became a habit I'd be happy to validate her belief. Insecurity and negative self-view is a massive turn off, meaning if she thinks she's ugly she's right because she thinks so.

No, No, No, No, he shouldn't be validating fat bytches and telling them it's okay to be fat bytches. It's not. It's fvcking unhealthy and disgusting. You and all her dirty little orbitors telling her she's fab just the way she is, are perpetuating the obesity problem and keeping the big bytch in a state of denial and delusion.....

Stop it. Tell her to put the big mac down and get on the threadmill.

 

[blind_one]

Reykhel is spot on, leave whale hunting for sailors armed with harpoons.

 

[Atom Smasher]

Perfect opportunity for a neg if she's not fat and just fishing for compliments. I've actually dealt with this several times (with NON-fat girls).

I always say either "Oh yeah? Let's have a look at you." or "What do you mean, fat?" depending on how well I know her, and I then obviously scan her body with my eyes. I'll then say "Hmmm..." in that sing-songy way that means "possibly". You know that "Hmmm" that substitutes for that unsure vocalization of "maybe".

Gets 'em every time.

 

[Atom Smasher]

"Them Entenmann's dun got your ass fat fat fat fat"

 

[Serenity]

No, No, No, No, he shouldn't be validating fat bytches and telling them it's okay to be fat bytches. It's not. It's fvcking unhealthy and disgusting. You and all her dirty little orbitors telling her she's fab just the way she is, are perpetuating the obesity problem and keeping the big bytch in a state of denial and delusion.....

Stop it. Tell her to put the big mac down and get on the threadmill.

If a guy doesn't accept a woman's weight then he clearly should not express that. If a guy doesn't mind her fat but the insecurity is the problem then "so what?" is an appropriate response, it doesn't deny the fact that she's fat but it denies that the guy gives a sh!t and thus her insecurity over it. If she's just insecure and deluded to believe she's fat when she's not then going against it is appropriate, based on it simply not being true.

If being fat is disgusting or not is a matter of personal opinion, I don't care about other peoples preferences regarding the other sex.

About you calling me an orbiter I say you're wrong, you don't know sh!t about me.

 

[YawataNoKami]

Women=endless insecurities. Do not worry about that or you will consume yourself.

 

[RangerMIke]

I usually feel lost when female starts complaining that she is fat, I do not know what should I respond. She must be looking for validation that she is sexy, but is it in my best interest to provide it or should I say something else. And in what way should my response differ in case she is actually chubby?

Women will always think there is something wrong with their bodies. They always think they are 'fat', which is ******** for 'I'm not perfect'. They're looking for validation...

The only way to deal with this stupidity is to joke about it and change the subject to sex. If she starts asking if what she is wearing makes her look fat... then you say "Yes... that outfit makes you look fat... take it off immediately and get into bed... you look much better naked." Or ask for a strip tease so you can give her an honest assessment.

If she starts getting ticked off because you won't take the question seriously just keep joking about it, NEVER NEVER take the question seriously. The last thing you need to do is to start the stupid.. "No baby, you're not fat!" This makes you look weak and trust me, the woman ALWAYS knows when you are just saying what she wants to hear.