Mountainman
Don Juan
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Hey guys,
Alright first post in the forum so be gentle..I'm a virgin. So the last few months I've been having to deal with an ex in the circle of friends. I guess first off let me give you some background:
I met this girl last spring from the softball team. Great girl and we had alot of fun together. Basically developed a good group of friends together. Honestly most of the friends we're mine to begin with but I introduced them to her. Anyway, was having a great summer together until things started to faulter. Now what was one stumbling block that I think hurt us from the beginning was that before I started dating her (about 4-5 months ago) she had broken off a relationship of 10 years. Yeah I know..I know...should've stayed away in the first place but the arrow penetrated pretty deep. Anyway, one thing compounded onto another..she wanted space along with the fact that she found out she was PREGNANT. Well at the time she found out (six weeks to be exact). So we didn't know what to do..I felt like my life was going to change drastically but it didn't. She had a miscarriage. So now things we're really freaking messed up. We didn't talk for a little while. When we did hang out because of our friends she would give me the cold shoulder. In fact on NYE I wanted to make amends with her and was talking to her..she didn't even look at me. What a *****! Anyway, thought I'd email the masters to get some insight into my situation. I've been in multiple long term relationships and still consider my self sort of an afc. I'm working on getting that under control though. Thanks for your help!
Garrison
Alright first post in the forum so be gentle..I'm a virgin. So the last few months I've been having to deal with an ex in the circle of friends. I guess first off let me give you some background:
I met this girl last spring from the softball team. Great girl and we had alot of fun together. Basically developed a good group of friends together. Honestly most of the friends we're mine to begin with but I introduced them to her. Anyway, was having a great summer together until things started to faulter. Now what was one stumbling block that I think hurt us from the beginning was that before I started dating her (about 4-5 months ago) she had broken off a relationship of 10 years. Yeah I know..I know...should've stayed away in the first place but the arrow penetrated pretty deep. Anyway, one thing compounded onto another..she wanted space along with the fact that she found out she was PREGNANT. Well at the time she found out (six weeks to be exact). So we didn't know what to do..I felt like my life was going to change drastically but it didn't. She had a miscarriage. So now things we're really freaking messed up. We didn't talk for a little while. When we did hang out because of our friends she would give me the cold shoulder. In fact on NYE I wanted to make amends with her and was talking to her..she didn't even look at me. What a *****! Anyway, thought I'd email the masters to get some insight into my situation. I've been in multiple long term relationships and still consider my self sort of an afc. I'm working on getting that under control though. Thanks for your help!
Garrison