"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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how to deal with diffiicult respones

joe23

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how do i deal wtih a girl who frequently tries to give difficult responses to test me with? i mean as respond in an alpha male ways, that dont make me look weak.

examples:

me: hey lets hang out this weekend?
girl: um, well i dont know, ill call you later?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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joe23 said:
how do i deal wtih a girl who frequently tries to give difficult responses to test me with? i mean as respond in an alpha male ways, that dont make me look weak.

examples:

me: hey lets hang out this weekend?
girl: um, well i dont know, ill call you later?
If you get these type of responses every time you suggest a date with her,then more than likely,she's just not that interested in you.



You're focusing on the WRONG end of the spectrum.



Instead of trying to figure out how to answer to these "difficult responses",you should be focusing on what is was that caused her to give them to you in the first place.



If you get these replies just every now and then,it shouldn't be that big of a deal,but if you get them over and over again,that means something went wrong between you two in the interactions you had prior to her blowing you off.



In other words,something was "off" in all the time you two hung out or talked to each other leading UP TO you asking her out and being turned down.




I suggest you try the advice in my signature.


If you follow it exactly....EXACTLY,it should put you back in the driver's seat.




When a girl repeatedly blows you off like that,she's taking you for granted.


She thinks you'll be there forever continuing to ask her out.



Go to the bottom of this reply and click on the word "THIS!".


Have a look at it. It should cause these "difficult responses" you're getting to dry up.
 

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SHe's not that into you. She's putting you on the back burner,knowing you will be there-so now she's waiting to see if something better comes up. SO you need to let her know that you aren't sitting at home waiting for her to call.

I'd tell her,"well, I guess I'll make other plans" IF she calls back wanting to go out-"I've made other plans,since you didn't seem sure" LET HER KNOW she needs to say yea or nay when you call,not I'll get back to you.
 
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