"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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How to deal with dating a girl from my class?

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Hi
I know this has probably been asked before, but I need your opinion..
I'm in college and I'm going to be in the same class as this girl for 5 more years.. I'll probably see her everyday in class.
I've been attracted to her since we started college last year, and she showed some IOI's sometimes, but we never dated til yesterday. I've dated many other girls in the meantime (she saw it) and she even got a boyfriend (they broke up 3 weeks ago).
Yesterday I went to the movies and took her home (we only made out, no sex yet).. Everything seems pretty fine, however I need to ask you this:

What would probably be the best attitude towards her during class time and during the other periods? My intentions are clearly to make it a long term relationship, but I know it's not hard to blow things up by being too attached to her...
Please share your similar experiences and your opinion!
thank you
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Well, just be light and playful around her....lots of teasing, lots of kino....

Actually, what I'm trying to say is just act the same way around her, whether you are in class or wherever. Just don't get clingy....talk to other people around you!!!!
 
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ARrocket said:
Well, just be light and playful around her....lots of teasing, lots of kino....

Actually, what I'm trying to say is just act the same way around her, whether you are in class or wherever. Just don't get clingy....talk to other people around you!!!!
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I know there is no magic number, but how many times a week do you think I should go out with her?
 
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