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How to deal with dating a girl from my class?

Perrito2008

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Hi
I know this has probably been asked before, but I need your opinion..
I'm in college and I'm going to be in the same class as this girl for 5 more years.. I'll probably see her everyday in class.
I've been attracted to her since we started college last year, and she showed some IOI's sometimes, but we never dated til yesterday. I've dated many other girls in the meantime (she saw it) and she even got a boyfriend (they broke up 3 weeks ago).
Yesterday I went to the movies and took her home (we only made out, no sex yet).. Everything seems pretty fine, however I need to ask you this:

What would probably be the best attitude towards her during class time and during the other periods? My intentions are clearly to make it a long term relationship, but I know it's not hard to blow things up by being too attached to her...
Please share your similar experiences and your opinion!
thank you
 

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Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Well, just be light and playful around her....lots of teasing, lots of kino....

Actually, what I'm trying to say is just act the same way around her, whether you are in class or wherever. Just don't get clingy....talk to other people around you!!!!
 

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ARrocket said:
Well, just be light and playful around her....lots of teasing, lots of kino....

Actually, what I'm trying to say is just act the same way around her, whether you are in class or wherever. Just don't get clingy....talk to other people around you!!!!
I know there is no magic number, but how many times a week do you think I should go out with her?
 
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