"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
how to deal with attention whoring in general?
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Firestar786
Senior Don Juan
Eventually next Her
SummerNight
Don Juan
For example:
she says:
I hate you when you leave the toilet lid up.
you say (in a upbeat, positive mood): OMG, you are right. I am a horrible person, it's such an incredible mistake by me. Baby, PLEASE, can you EVER forgive me?
If you blow it way over and don't get butthurt about it then it will show two things: that she was silly that she started a fight over such a small thing and it will increase the attraction she has towards you because she can see that she just can't get to you.
The small fight is basically a **** test to see if you really are the attractive man you seem to be. Take these situations as an opportunity to increase her attraction towards you.
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Heisenburger
Don Juan
Flush any girl down the toilet if they start playing the *****y princess. They will most likely respect you.
Life us built on realism, not romanticism.
