"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
how to deal with attention whoring in general?
- Thread starter Reckoning
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"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Firestar786
Senior Don Juan
Eventually next Her
SummerNight
Don Juan
For example:
she says:
I hate you when you leave the toilet lid up.
you say (in a upbeat, positive mood): OMG, you are right. I am a horrible person, it's such an incredible mistake by me. Baby, PLEASE, can you EVER forgive me?
If you blow it way over and don't get butthurt about it then it will show two things: that she was silly that she started a fight over such a small thing and it will increase the attraction she has towards you because she can see that she just can't get to you.
The small fight is basically a **** test to see if you really are the attractive man you seem to be. Take these situations as an opportunity to increase her attraction towards you.
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Heisenburger
Don Juan
Flush any girl down the toilet if they start playing the *****y princess. They will most likely respect you.
Life us built on realism, not romanticism.
