"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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how to deal with attention *****s?

carlitos

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how do you deal with girls that teases you..but constantly? it's like when they have a fetish for it or something...shows you IOIs but always pulls away? should you ignore them or maybe they're waiting for a direct move?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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KontrollerX

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Ignore them.

This will make them want you.

Still...

Keep ignoring them and go get a normal girl for yourself.

Attention wh0res are a dead end and a blackhole.

Stay away from them.
 

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Give them a bunch of 1 dollar bills! and say "dance for me!" other words, just knock them down a peg. say things like "you're retarded", or "you suck" and walk away.
 

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Protect yourself... Attention Seeking behavior is a POSSIBLE warning sign of severe personality flaws...maybe even a disorder.


If you are thinking Long Term... yikes...

chances are she is so shallow - all of your emotional investment will be swallowed up in her black hole leaving you - with nothing to show for your efforts... Except for that drained - worn down feeling.

On the other hand if you just wanna ****...well...crazy girls.... yep ...we all know
 

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I dealt with one once at an Outback Steakhouse. She asked if I was buying her dinner (We were with a large group) I asked if we were platonic or dating, and she said platonic, both with actions and words. And when we finished the meal, it was "Waiter, seperate checks"
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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JackPrescott said:
I dealt with one once at an Outback Steakhouse. She asked if I was buying her dinner (We were with a large group) I asked if we were platonic or dating, and she said platonic, both with actions and words. And when we finished the meal, it was "Waiter, seperate checks"
haha classic, I love it! This is where the real life experience compliments and exceeds the bible.
 

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oh man

i love attention hoes, they're like toys to me, use them, then give em away cuz like snoop said, "it aint no fun if the homies cant get none"

you manipulate them. mind fuk them. Give them so much attention the withdraw it, and let them play games because they will. they will try to get you jealous, and flirt with other guys with you, you just gotta act like it doesnt brother you, it eats them alive inside. I just laugh, when they tell me sh1t like "ohh i had sooo much fun with tim last night!"

me- "oh yea? thats awesome! you two look great together, oh excuse me, my phone is ringing, it must be sally" boom cut her off

and you gotta leave them on their toes, give them only so much, that it will leave them wondering. if instead of saying "oh i went and chilled with the boys." say some sh1t like "oh i went to dinner with a 'friend' ",
she will be thinking over and over who this 'friend' is and it will get her jealous amd then watch her behaviour change, she will c0ck tease you. do anything for attention.

AW are FUN,. but when **** gets serious, BACK OFF because they WILL FUK YOUR MIND UP. my first ex was a AW and wow she was fuked, i laugh at her now cuz shes stuck with a guy whos long distance and is clingy, phones her every 5 min when shes chillin with her girls, she tried commin back to me but i ignored her, its too low of a standard to be talking to her.

so to sim it up. mind fuk them, play them like toys
 
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you should go to the search button and type "dealing with attention *****s"

that'll help u tons

quick advice - have dozens of girls that you are gaming at the same time, and u wont ever worry about any AW's
 

I.A.F.Y.B.

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Guy Incognito said:
Give them a bunch of 1 dollar bills! and say "dance for me!" other words, just knock them down a peg. say things like "you're retarded", or "you suck" and walk away.
Why would you pay a ho'? Thats a b!tch move....

KontrollerX said:
Ignore them.

This will make them want you.

Still...

Keep ignoring them and go get a normal girl for yourself.

Attention wh0res are a dead end and a blackhole.

Stay away from them.
Listen to Kontroller!!
 

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I.A.F.Y.B. said:
Listen to Kontroller!!
hes the reason i got over my ex

x2
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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