"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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How to deal with an in class AMOG

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I don't even want to call this guy an AMOG because he's such a d1ck. This guy is a social scumbag and rotten individual, and the thought of me referring to him as alpha just about makes me sick to my stomach. But he is. The guy's state is virtually unalterable.

My favorite plate is in my biochemistry class and the AMOG sits in between the 2 of us. Seating was assigned, but it is only mandatory during exams. Every day, this guy verbally and physically needles the HB, to the point where she exploded on him last class. His state flinched then. The only other times I can recall his state being affected was when he was trying to make fun of me for ballroom dancing and I started asking the girls around me what they thought of men who ballroom danced... they all joined forces and essentially shut him down for me and his state was affected. None of the AMOG routine stuff works on him because he just acts like he legit doesn't care. And I honestly think he's a seriously insecure guy and is acting, but is just super super solid.

Anyways, my questions are

1. How should I deal with this guy in class when he starts needling the HB. He doesn't just needle her verbally, but like I said, does it physically too. He'll grab her arm and start drawing penises on it or grab her head in a headlock and start messing up her hair. Or sometimes he'll just grab hold of her and won't like go, ect. As a man, don't I have some sort of responsibility to take care of the people under my purview, particularly the women? The thing is, I don't want to come across like the AMOG is affecting me or like I'm some "white knight". I want to find a tactful way to shut him down that doesn't compromise my masculinity or make me look bad.

2. Now that the HB and I have officially "hung out" and have plans to do so again, should I just sit next to her? I always get there first, and if I sat in the AMOG's seat, that would essentially solve the AMOG problem and put me closer to the HB.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Are you in middle school?
 
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PrettyBoyAJ said:
Are you in middle school?
Dude. Come on. Believe it or not, there are guys like that in college.

I don't know how he did well enough in 2 years of chemistry to be in biochemistry. But he's obviously there. And if I knew the best way to deal with it, I wouldn't have asked about it.

Answers like that aren't helpful.
 

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I've never seen no sh!t like that in my 4 years of college.

1. Don't let anyone disrespect you. If he comes at you sidewayz you check him.

2. You don't sit by a girl your dating in class. That will ruin the mystery factor.

3. If you are dating that girl (at least made-out or had sex with her) and this dude is messing with her you check his a$$ because he is disrespecting you too. If you are not dating the chick then don't worry about it. Just make fun of his immaturity whenever you and the girl talk.
 
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PrettyBoyAJ said:
I've never seen no sh!t like that in my 4 years of college.

1. Don't let anyone disrespect you. If he comes at you sidewayz you check him.

2. You don't sit by a girl your dating in class. That will ruin the mystery factor.

3. If you are dating that girl (at least made-out or had sex with her) and this dude is messing with her you check his a$$ because he is disrespecting you too. If you are not dating the chick then don't worry about it. Just make fun of his immaturity whenever you and the girl talk.
Thank you. No one likes the guy. I have yet to meet anyone who does.

And I've been doing pretty much what your suggested. So thank you :)
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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If no one likes him, and he's an assh0le.. He is not alpha. This guy is an insecure AFC that craves attention.

He would probably be considered alpha to a 3rd rate high school dropout woman who commonly falls into LTRs with abusive men.

From what your post says, you were totally alpha when the guy tried to sh1t on you for ballroom dancing. Just keep doing what you're doing, no chick worth your time is gonna go for him instead of you.

Don't let any violent altercations with this d0uchebag get between you and your studies though. It would suck for you to lose your education over giving this sh1thead some "personal time" lol.
 
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