"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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How to deal with an in class AMOG

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I don't even want to call this guy an AMOG because he's such a d1ck. This guy is a social scumbag and rotten individual, and the thought of me referring to him as alpha just about makes me sick to my stomach. But he is. The guy's state is virtually unalterable.

My favorite plate is in my biochemistry class and the AMOG sits in between the 2 of us. Seating was assigned, but it is only mandatory during exams. Every day, this guy verbally and physically needles the HB, to the point where she exploded on him last class. His state flinched then. The only other times I can recall his state being affected was when he was trying to make fun of me for ballroom dancing and I started asking the girls around me what they thought of men who ballroom danced... they all joined forces and essentially shut him down for me and his state was affected. None of the AMOG routine stuff works on him because he just acts like he legit doesn't care. And I honestly think he's a seriously insecure guy and is acting, but is just super super solid.

Anyways, my questions are

1. How should I deal with this guy in class when he starts needling the HB. He doesn't just needle her verbally, but like I said, does it physically too. He'll grab her arm and start drawing penises on it or grab her head in a headlock and start messing up her hair. Or sometimes he'll just grab hold of her and won't like go, ect. As a man, don't I have some sort of responsibility to take care of the people under my purview, particularly the women? The thing is, I don't want to come across like the AMOG is affecting me or like I'm some "white knight". I want to find a tactful way to shut him down that doesn't compromise my masculinity or make me look bad.

2. Now that the HB and I have officially "hung out" and have plans to do so again, should I just sit next to her? I always get there first, and if I sat in the AMOG's seat, that would essentially solve the AMOG problem and put me closer to the HB.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Are you in middle school?
 
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PrettyBoyAJ said:
Are you in middle school?
Dude. Come on. Believe it or not, there are guys like that in college.

I don't know how he did well enough in 2 years of chemistry to be in biochemistry. But he's obviously there. And if I knew the best way to deal with it, I wouldn't have asked about it.

Answers like that aren't helpful.
 

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I've never seen no sh!t like that in my 4 years of college.

1. Don't let anyone disrespect you. If he comes at you sidewayz you check him.

2. You don't sit by a girl your dating in class. That will ruin the mystery factor.

3. If you are dating that girl (at least made-out or had sex with her) and this dude is messing with her you check his a$$ because he is disrespecting you too. If you are not dating the chick then don't worry about it. Just make fun of his immaturity whenever you and the girl talk.
 
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PrettyBoyAJ said:
I've never seen no sh!t like that in my 4 years of college.

1. Don't let anyone disrespect you. If he comes at you sidewayz you check him.

2. You don't sit by a girl your dating in class. That will ruin the mystery factor.

3. If you are dating that girl (at least made-out or had sex with her) and this dude is messing with her you check his a$$ because he is disrespecting you too. If you are not dating the chick then don't worry about it. Just make fun of his immaturity whenever you and the girl talk.
Thank you. No one likes the guy. I have yet to meet anyone who does.

And I've been doing pretty much what your suggested. So thank you :)
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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If no one likes him, and he's an assh0le.. He is not alpha. This guy is an insecure AFC that craves attention.

He would probably be considered alpha to a 3rd rate high school dropout woman who commonly falls into LTRs with abusive men.

From what your post says, you were totally alpha when the guy tried to sh1t on you for ballroom dancing. Just keep doing what you're doing, no chick worth your time is gonna go for him instead of you.

Don't let any violent altercations with this d0uchebag get between you and your studies though. It would suck for you to lose your education over giving this sh1thead some "personal time" lol.
 
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