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How to deal with a text like this?

Fireballs

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Ok so a bit of background info - dating girl for about 5 weeks and she shows very high interest. I can't see her for a few weeks due to some circumstances and then I get this text:

''Probably a good thing - 2 weeks break might do me good - I think I'm a bit too keen on you. Do you know the hot co-worker asked me out today and I turned him down?!? Whats the world coming to?''

How should I respond to something like this? I have been asked out by girls whilst we have been dating but I never tell her. Should I let her know that I do or just ignore this text or? I'm stumped.
 

Just because a woman listens to you and acts interested in what you say doesn't mean she really is. She might just be acting polite, while silently wishing that the date would hurry up and end, or that you would go away... and never come back.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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She's testing your manly core, are you jealous, needy etc...

I'd make a joke out of it (keep it playful an fun) tease her that she misses you (that's what she's saying, in the format of a test) and you're not surprised she does because you're awesome and you look forward to catching up in a couple of weeks.

You validate yourself and her feelings this way, without using logic like the typical man would.

Don't mention anything about the hot co-worker she mentioned, because you're a man and above all that shenanigans ;)

Don't ignore her that's just rude and don't tell her about other women, it's none of her business unless you're exclusive (bit soon for that).

My thoughts anyway....
 

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nemz said:
She's testing your manly core, are you jealous, needy etc...

I'd make a joke out of it (keep it playful an fun) tease her that she misses you (that's what she's saying, in the format of a test) and you're not surprised she does because you're awesome and you look forward to catching up in a couple of weeks.

You validate yourself and her feelings this way, without using logic like the typical man would.

Don't mention anything about the hot co-worker she mentioned, because you're a man and above all that shenanigans ;)

Don't ignore her that's just rude and don't tell her about other women, it's none of her business unless you're exclusive (bit soon for that).
This^

Id respond with "He asked you out too? I thought I was the only one."
 

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TheException said:
This^

Id respond with "He asked you out too? I thought I was the only one."
LOL this^^

That's a great response
 

Just because a woman listens to you and acts interested in what you say doesn't mean she really is. She might just be acting polite, while silently wishing that the date would hurry up and end, or that you would go away... and never come back.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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Fireballs said:
''Probably a good thing - 2 weeks break might do me good - I think I'm a bit too keen on you. Do you know the hot co-worker asked me out today and I turned him down?!? Whats the world coming to?''
Looks like you have her wrapped around your finger. If you haven't already banged her, what are you waiting for.
 

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Personally, I don't like when women do things like this. The fact that she called another guy hot and let you know she thought he was hot? No bueno. With that said, while I don't believe the delivery was the best, I think what she was subconsciously trying to say was "I'm getting other offers but I'm turning them down because I like you so much." So... yeah, delivery sucks, but the sentiment is good. However, when I get text like this I don't tend to answer them. If they ask me about it later, I'd be like, "well, how was I supposed to respond? I don't look at guys like that, and his hotness isn't really of interest to me." Like, why would I involve myself in that kind of conversation?? Girls, man, they be weird sometimes...
 
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