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How to deal with a text like this?

Fireballs

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Ok so a bit of background info - dating girl for about 5 weeks and she shows very high interest. I can't see her for a few weeks due to some circumstances and then I get this text:

''Probably a good thing - 2 weeks break might do me good - I think I'm a bit too keen on you. Do you know the hot co-worker asked me out today and I turned him down?!? Whats the world coming to?''

How should I respond to something like this? I have been asked out by girls whilst we have been dating but I never tell her. Should I let her know that I do or just ignore this text or? I'm stumped.
 

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nemz

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She's testing your manly core, are you jealous, needy etc...

I'd make a joke out of it (keep it playful an fun) tease her that she misses you (that's what she's saying, in the format of a test) and you're not surprised she does because you're awesome and you look forward to catching up in a couple of weeks.

You validate yourself and her feelings this way, without using logic like the typical man would.

Don't mention anything about the hot co-worker she mentioned, because you're a man and above all that shenanigans ;)

Don't ignore her that's just rude and don't tell her about other women, it's none of her business unless you're exclusive (bit soon for that).

My thoughts anyway....
 

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nemz said:
She's testing your manly core, are you jealous, needy etc...

I'd make a joke out of it (keep it playful an fun) tease her that she misses you (that's what she's saying, in the format of a test) and you're not surprised she does because you're awesome and you look forward to catching up in a couple of weeks.

You validate yourself and her feelings this way, without using logic like the typical man would.

Don't mention anything about the hot co-worker she mentioned, because you're a man and above all that shenanigans ;)

Don't ignore her that's just rude and don't tell her about other women, it's none of her business unless you're exclusive (bit soon for that).
This^

Id respond with "He asked you out too? I thought I was the only one."
 

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TheException said:
This^

Id respond with "He asked you out too? I thought I was the only one."
LOL this^^

That's a great response
 

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Fireballs said:
''Probably a good thing - 2 weeks break might do me good - I think I'm a bit too keen on you. Do you know the hot co-worker asked me out today and I turned him down?!? Whats the world coming to?''
Looks like you have her wrapped around your finger. If you haven't already banged her, what are you waiting for.
 

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Personally, I don't like when women do things like this. The fact that she called another guy hot and let you know she thought he was hot? No bueno. With that said, while I don't believe the delivery was the best, I think what she was subconsciously trying to say was "I'm getting other offers but I'm turning them down because I like you so much." So... yeah, delivery sucks, but the sentiment is good. However, when I get text like this I don't tend to answer them. If they ask me about it later, I'd be like, "well, how was I supposed to respond? I don't look at guys like that, and his hotness isn't really of interest to me." Like, why would I involve myself in that kind of conversation?? Girls, man, they be weird sometimes...
 
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